At a glance
| Strap on Dating | Strapon Singles | |
|---|---|---|
| Focus | Harness wearers plus the men, women and couples looking for them | Strapon dating, with signup roles for Sub Male, Sub Female, Crossdresser and Strapon Domme |
| Network | Standalone brand with its own profiles | Part of a network of related sites; the site describes itself as a co-operative of online-dating sites |
| Profile sharing | Your profile appears on Strap on Dating | Signup includes a Shared Site Disclosure: profiles can appear on related strapon sites in the network |
| Signup | Short signup card, then a profile you complete | Five-step signup that includes role selection |
| Messaging | Unrestricted on VIP or VIP Plus | Paid upgrade, per its own pages |
| Live chat | Private messages between two people | Advertises live chat and third party chat rooms |
| Email at signup | Account mail only, to the address you pick | Signup consents to emails of flirts, messages, account updates and special offers |
| Renewal | Plans under a year renew at the same price; twelve month plans end | Automatic renewal terms; cancel under My Account, then Subscription |
| Background checks | None, stated in the Terms | None, stated in its Terms |
| Billing | Neutral company name on statements | Billed through a third party biller, per its own pages |
Who operates Strapon Singles
The Terms on straponsingles.com name a UK registered company (number 07557899) and a Quebec company, 9345-1433 Quebec Inc, based in Montreal. The site's about page calls the business a co-operative of online-dating sites, and the page assets load from the DatingVIP network. In plain terms, Strapon Singles is one brand among a family of niche sites that share technology and, as the next section explains, can share profiles.
Strap on Dating is a single brand with its own Terms, its own pricing and its own profile pool. When you create a profile here, that is where it appears.
The Shared Site Disclosure
This is the clearest structural difference. During signup on Strapon Singles you accept a Shared Site Disclosure alongside the Terms. Under it, a profile created on Strapon Singles may also be displayed on related strapon sites within the same network. Wider exposure is a plus if you want reach; knowing exactly which brand shows your photo and headline is a plus if you want control. Read the disclosure in full on the Strapon Singles signup page before you accept it, and decide which approach suits your privacy.
Signup and roles
Strapon Singles asks you to choose a role at the start, from Sub Male, Sub Female, Crossdresser or Strapon Domme, before moving through a five-step form. That makes the site's emphasis on dominant women and submissive partners clear from the first screen.
Strap on Dating starts with a short signup card and leaves the detail to your profile. You can describe yourself as a wearer, a receiver, a switch or simply curious, and add interest labels such as Dominatrix, Dom, Sub or Roleplay. A couple can write one shared profile with both partners' roles spelled out.
Features compared
On Strapon Singles, the help pages describe flirts, a Likes list, photo galleries, private messages and chat rooms that run through a third party provider with its own established user base. The home page also advertises live chat at any hour.
On Strap on Dating, the core tools are a detailed profile, interest tags, area search with a radius you set, private messages and a members gallery of real profiles near you. VIP Plus adds visibility and contact extras on top of VIP. There are no public chat rooms; conversations happen one to one. A one to one setup suits a private temperament, group rooms suit a sociable one, and neither is wrong, but it is worth knowing before you pay.
Prices and renewal
Strap on Dating's prices are published in full on the pricing overview. VIP starts with a seven day plan at $19.99 and reaches $260.19 for twelve months; VIP Plus runs from $22.99 to $338.41. Every plan under a year renews at the price you first paid until you stop it, while the twelve month plans close by themselves. Renewal stops once you ask Support or the chat bot and complete the steps in the email that follows.
Strapon Singles publishes Automatic Renewal Terms that explain its own renewal and cancellation route, which runs through My Account and then Subscription. Its prices sit on its upgrade page, and they can change, so compare them on the day you decide rather than relying on any figure repeated elsewhere.
Safety and the small print
Both companies say plainly that they do not run criminal background checks on users. The Strapon Singles Terms add that the company does not use or condone fake profiles or bots, and reserve the right to screen users against public databases without promising to do so.
Strap on Dating's Terms commit to reviewing and resolving complaints about unlawful or inappropriate content within five business days. Twelve US states, California and New York among them, give residents three business days to back out of a new plan penalty-less. The safety advice covers scams, privacy and meeting well, and it applies whichever site you use.
What reviewers report
Independent reviewers of network sites like Strapon Singles comment on the shared profile pool, which can make a brand feel busier than a standalone site, and on the volume of email that follows signup. Reviewers report mixed experiences with chat rooms, depending on the hour and the room. These are general observations from published reviews, not verified facts about every user's experience, so weigh them alongside your own reading of each site's pages.
Discretion compared
Strap on Dating keeps your sign-in email hidden, lets you use an invented handle, allows a profile without your face and bills under a neutral company name. Choose a private inbox at signup if you want that mail kept away from others.
Strapon Singles says its billing runs through a third party biller and lists the charge names on a dedicated page. Because your profile may appear on related sites under the Shared Site Disclosure, think about photos and headlines with that wider audience in mind.
Which might suit you
Strapon Singles may appeal if you identify strongly with a dominant woman and submissive partner framing, enjoy chat rooms, and like the idea of a profile shown across a family of related sites.
Strap on Dating may appeal if you want a single brand where your profile stays put, one to one messaging, flexible role descriptions for wearers, receivers, switches and couples, published prices in dollars, and billing under a neutral name.
Reading both sets of Terms side by side, then deciding, is the sensible approach.
How to compare any two strapon sites
- Find who operates the site and where it is registered.
- Look for any shared profile or network disclosure.
- Compare the prices and whether each plan renews.
- Read the cancellation route and any state cancel rights.
- Check the photo disclaimer and whether the operator admits to creating profiles.
- Read the safety advice and how complaints are handled.
Other side by side reviews are listed on the comparisons overview.
Deleting an account
On Strap on Dating, canceling renewal and deleting a profile are separate steps; deletion happens in your settings. Strapon Singles explains in its FAQ how to download, deactivate or permanently delete your data and account. If you are leaving either site, do both steps deliberately rather than assuming one covers the other.
Frequently asked questions
Is Strapon Singles part of Strap on Dating?
No. They are separate brands run by separate companies, with separate Terms and separate profiles.
Will my Strap on Dating profile appear on other sites?
Your profile is shown on Strap on Dating. Strapon Singles, by contrast, tells new users at signup that their profile may be displayed across its sister brands.
Which site has chat rooms?
Strapon Singles describes third party chat rooms in its help pages. Messages on Strap on Dating stay between two people.
Do either of the sites run background checks?
Neither does. Both say so in their Terms, so use the safety steps before meeting anyone.
How much does Strap on Dating cost?
VIP ranges from $19.99 for seven days to $260.19 for twelve months; VIP Plus from $22.99 to $338.41.
